{"id":4688,"date":"2025-06-25T16:56:44","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T14:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/2025.devsector.ch\/academygrainesdepaix\/ressources\/desir-de-violence-quand-tu-nous-tiens\/"},"modified":"2025-06-25T16:56:44","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T14:56:44","slug":"desir-de-violence-quand-tu-nous-tiens","status":"publish","type":"ressource","link":"https:\/\/2025.devsector.ch\/academygrainesdepaix\/en\/ressources\/desir-de-violence-quand-tu-nous-tiens\/","title":{"rendered":"D\u00e9sir de violence, quand tu nous tiens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Tu peux leur expliquer sans avoir besoin de te sauver&nbsp;!<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Justement, le probl\u00e8me, c\u2019est que j\u2019ai du mal \u00e0 m\u2019exprimer. \u00c7a m\u2019\u00e9nerve et j\u2019ai envie de tout casser.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Mais pourquoi&nbsp;? Qu\u2019est-ce qui s\u2019est pass\u00e9&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Dimanche, je veux aller au match de foot et ils veulent qu\u2019on aille voir ma grand-m\u00e8re dans sa maison de retraite. Tu parles d\u2019une sortie&nbsp;!<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Et c\u2019est pour \u00e7a que tu veux fuguer&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Ben ouais, l\u00e9gitime d\u00e9fense&nbsp;!<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Tu m\u00e9langes tout. La l\u00e9gitime d\u00e9fense, c\u2019est lorsque l\u2019on est attaqu\u00e9 et ce n\u2019est pas ton cas. Ta r\u00e9action est trop forte&nbsp;: disproportionn\u00e9e&nbsp;!<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Facile&nbsp;! Toi t\u2019es cool. Rien ne te d\u00e9coiffe, pas m\u00eame un tsunami.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Et toi, t\u2019es comme une bombe ou une mine, \u00e0 peine on te touche que tu exploses.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;J\u2019ai toujours \u00e9t\u00e9 comme \u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Peut-\u00eatre, mais rien ne t\u2019emp\u00eache de changer. C\u2019est toi qui d\u00e9cides.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Je ne d\u00e9cide rien, je r\u00e9agis aux agressions, \u00e0 la violence des autres.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Aller faire une visite \u00e0 ta grand-m\u00e8re n\u2019est pas une violence.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Tu ne vas pas me faire la morale, toi aussi&nbsp;!<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Et pourquoi pas&nbsp;? Je suis ton pote et je ne fonctionne pas comme toi, alors j\u2019essaie de t\u2019aider. Question&nbsp;: t\u2019aimes pas ta grand-m\u00e8re&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Si\u2026 je l\u2019aime bien, m\u00eame qu\u2019elle me refile des tunes de temps en temps.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Il est o\u00f9 le probl\u00e8me&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;J\u2019veux pas rater le match.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Tu peux peut-\u00eatre faire autrement&nbsp;? Le matin tu vas voir ta grand-m\u00e8re tout seul, ainsi tu feras plaisir \u00e0 tes parents. Puis\u2026 l\u2019apr\u00e8s-midi tu vas au match.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Ah, c\u2019est cool&nbsp;! Tu m\u2019as trouv\u00e9 une solution. Je pense que les parents seront d\u2019accord pour le deal.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;J\u2019arr\u00eate pas de te dire que tu t\u2019\u00e9nerves pour un rien. Fais comme moi, prends le temps de discuter.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Moi, je discute en m\u2019\u00e9nervant. Comment tu fais, toi, pour pas laisser monter la violence&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Je contr\u00f4le, mec, je contr\u00f4le.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Comment&nbsp;? Tu vas finir par m\u2019expliquer&nbsp;? Tu vois, toi aussi tu as un probl\u00e8me. Tu parles, tu parles et tu dis rien. C\u2019est comme si t\u2019avais un secret mec.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;C\u2019est simple&nbsp;: tu te d\u00e9connectes, tu d\u00e9branches, tu te calmes quoi&nbsp;!<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Et il est o\u00f9 l\u2019interrupteur pour pas faire p\u00e9ter les plombs&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;Dans ta t\u00eate mec, dans ta toute petite t\u00eate.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Il est o\u00f9 le mode d\u2019emploi&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211; Chacun son truc, c\u2019est perso mec. C\u2019est \u00e0 toi de trouver la m\u00e9thode si tu d\u00e9sires vivre plus heureux. C\u2019est mieux que de gagner au loto.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;N\u2019importe quoi&nbsp;! Avec le loto tu deviens riche.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Et l\u2019amour de ses parents, de ses amis c\u2019est pas de l\u2019or 24 carats&nbsp;?<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;T\u2019as raison mec, je vais chercher l\u2019interrupteur de mon volcan int\u00e9rieur.<br \/>\n&#8211;&nbsp;C\u2019est \u00e7a, et quand tu l\u2019auras trouv\u00e9, envoies-moi sa photo par mms.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sketch \u00e9crit pour Graines de Paix par Emilie Salamin-Amar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a9 2006 Emilie Salamin-Amar des Editions Plan\u00e8te Lilou.<br \/>\nTous droits r\u00e9serv\u00e9s.&nbsp;Reproduction strictement interdite.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211;&nbsp;Tu peux leur expliquer sans avoir besoin de te sauver&nbsp;! &#8211;&nbsp;Justement, le probl\u00e8me, c\u2019est que j\u2019ai du mal \u00e0 m\u2019exprimer. 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